€47,00 EUR

Tending the Twinge

A 9-day ceremony to shift your triggers in the moment — so you stop treating every wobble like a crack in the whole foundation of your love.

 

You don’t need a year of healing to calm the twinge. You need a way to meet it — right now.

You already know your patterns.
But even after all the therapy, journaling, and pep talks you’ve given yourself…
The second something feels off, your chest tightens, your mind races with “what if,” and you find yourself pulling back — even when you don’t want to.

Most advice skips the split-second moment that changes everything.
This isn’t another set of tips you’ll try once and forget. It’s a simple, embodied pathway to meet the Twinge the instant it hits, steady your body, and stay in the connection you actually want — without getting dragged back into the old story.

 

You’ve Felt It in These Tiny, Tender Moments…

🜄 You feel a tight, anxious flutter in your chest when his mood shifts—even if it has nothing to do with you.

🜄 Your heart drops when you don’t get the reaction you were hoping for—like a warm text, a loving tone, or a reassuring gesture.

🜄 You feel a jolt of doubt when he’s quiet or distracted, and your mind leaps into “what’s wrong?” or “what does this mean about us?”

🜄 You ache with the fear that something small—a look, a word, a missed moment—secretly means something bigger is wrong.

🜄 You feel a wall rise inside you the second things get too emotionally raw or vulnerable, even though you long to stay soft and close.

 

What We Tend to Together

What You’ll Be Able to Do in Just 9 Days...

You’ll receive a step-by-step, embodied process to: 

>> Stop a twinge from turning into hours of self-doubt so you can enjoy the rest of your day together without the cloud of ‘something’s wrong.’ 

>> Know what’s actually yours to work through vs. what’s just a passing wave so you can stop feeling like every wobble means the relationship is in danger.

>> Speak up for what you need in the moment without bracing for pushback — so you can feel that soul-deep closeness where he really sees you, understands you, and holds you in the way you’ve always wanted.

>> Stay present in connection instead of drifting into “what does this mean?” analysis so you can actually receive the love that’s right in front of you.

>> Feel grounded in yourself even when your partner feels far away so you don’t spiral into old fears or start pulling away first.

Imagine having these shifts within days — that’s what Tending the Twinge gives you.

These skills work in the moment — and over time, they reshape how safe, certain, and connected you feel in love.

 

How Love Will Feel Different After 9 Days.

By the end of this journey, you’ll know how to:

✓ Trust yourself to tell the difference between a passing trigger and a real issue — so the next time he’s quiet after work, you curl up next to him instead of pulling away, knowing you’re still on solid ground.

✓ Stop wondering if you’re ‘too complicated’ to love — and start showing up as the deeply feeling, magnetic woman you are, knowing your emotions draw him closer instead of pushing him away.

✓ Navigate the cycles and seasons of love with calm, rooted confidence — so moving in together, saying “yes,” or hitting a rough week feels like a natural deepening, not a reason to doubt.

✓ Bring your needs and truth forward without fear of pushing him away — so hard conversations end in closeness, not distance.

✓ Trust the love to stay — so even when old patterns flare, instead of pulling back, you can melt into his arms and feel him choose you all over again.

 

You won’t just “learn about triggers.”

In Tending the Twinge, you’ll finally name and work with the Twinge — that split-second bodily jolt before the spiral takes over. You’ll get a simple, sacred set of four tending tools, each designed to steady your body, quiet the danger signal, and shift the moment in real time — not three hours later when the connection’s already frayed. Then you’ll layer them with your personal Rooted Return Ritual, a gentle, personalized rhythm that prepares your nervous system for love’s natural highs and lows. No more sorting through a giant self-help toolbox, guessing what might work. This is a curated, made-for-you ceremony — like unwrapping a gift box filled with the textures, colors, and rhythms of your love story — so you can feel at home in yourself, and in the relationship you’re building.

You’ll get:

— 4 in-the-moment Tending Tools that work every time
— 3 Rooted Rituals to keep your nervous system prepared for love’s highs and lows
— Your personalized Tending Rhythm framework
— 9 days of audio ceremonies you can revisit anytime

Everything you need to meet the Twinge and change the moment is waiting inside.

 

By this time next week... 

Every time a Twinge moment hits and you don’t have the tools to meet it, your body rehearses the same old pattern. That’s why it still feels so automatic — it’s muscle memory. But that also means you can start rewiring it fast.

In just 9 days, you could be meeting those moments with calm steadiness instead of panic or overthinking — and feeling closer to him instead of quietly pulling away.

For €47, you’re not just buying a course. You’re changing the way your love story feels, starting now.

Is this for you?

  • You don’t need to be in a “perfect” relationship. This work is about you feeling steady — which shifts everything.

  • If you’re single, you’ll still meet the moments when closeness or commitment stirs up doubt (and you’ll carry these tools into love when it comes).

  • This isn’t about fixing your partner or doing years of healing first. It’s about you knowing exactly how to hold yourself steady right now.

 

Join Tending the Twinge now — and by this time next week, you’ll know exactly how to hold yourself when the Twinge hits, and feel closer instead of spiraling apart.

 

Why I Created This For You... 

I’ve spent years in the world of healing and relationships — therapy, trainings, deep dives. And yet, in my own love life, the tiniest moments still sent me spiraling. I realized no one was teaching us how to handle the instant our body reacts. That’s why I created Tending the Twinge — not theory, not years of work, but a clear, embodied way to hold yourself steady in those exact moments. This is the piece I wish I’d had, and it’s the piece that will change everything for you.

 

These women didn’t wait years to feel safe in love — and you don’t have to either.

I spent years trying to fix my anxiety in love. But nothing told me what to do in the moment — until this. Learning to catch the Twinge before it pulled me under changed everything. For the first time, I can meet those little jolts without spiraling, and my relationship feels lighter, safer, and more us.

Julia L.

I used to be the one who ran. The second things felt off, I’d convince myself it was safer to pull away, to go it alone. Even in good relationships, I’d have one foot out the door — just in case. Tending the Twinge gave me a way to stay when my instinct was to bolt. Now, even in the chaos of marriage and a newborn, I don’t shut down or plan my exit. I stay close. I stay in it. And it’s making everything deeper.

Paige W.

Before this, every tiny wobble made me feel like maybe we weren’t going to make it. I’d find myself watching for signs, testing the waters, always on edge. Now, the triggers still show up — but they don’t take over. I can laugh in the middle of a hard conversation, curl up next to him after an argument, and actually feel safe letting him see all of me, even the messy parts.

Sara S.

Before, I didn’t even realize how often I silenced my needs just to keep the peace. Even in a loving relationship, I’d adjust myself, give space, call it ‘compromise’ — but I was disappearing. Now, I notice the Twinge the moment it starts. I stay with myself, speak from clarity, and no longer fear my emotions (or his). That’s real emotional safety — the kind where I can breathe deep, show up fully, and know I’m honoring what’s true for me in love.

Mikaela S.